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To be honest, I wrote this a year ago. But it didn't turn out as well as I'd hoped. It sounded much better in my head, and it was a considerably longer list in there. I suppose by delaying this a year I can give the impression that I'm a year younger than I really am. Oh wait, I guess I shouldn't have said that. It seems I'm not very good at this vanity thing.


"I am approaching the threshold of age..." - Mark Twain

Now that I've started my sixth decade on the planet, it's with some melancholy I realize that I'm going to have to face certain incontrovertible facts.

I will not be getting younger.

I will not be a teenage idol.

I will not be the president.

I will not win the WWE Championship belt.

I will not be a millionaire.

I will not be a superhero.

I will not own a house, or a dirigible.

I will not win an Oscar.

I will not be living to age 500.

I will not write the great American novel... or will I?

I will not be going into outer space.

I will not be a XXX star (although the year is still young).

I will not have my own TV show.

I will not win a Nobel Prize.


It's with some sadness that I've come to recognize I do not feel as intensely or deeply about many things, like music, as I did when I was younger. But I take heart that I've traded some of that passion for the wisdom that can only be achieved with age, as well as a desire for balance that I lacked in earlier days.

β€œIn the end only three things matter: How much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.” – Buddha

Addendum: Even though I must come to terms with the fact I will never attain some of the goals or dreams I held when I was younger, on the other hand I have managed to do some rather amazing things that I never could have imagined I'd accomplish. ("I tell myself tomorrow brings me things I would not dream today." - Ian Anderson)

JonWoods by JonWoods @
I don't know that the classifications below would be applicable for any other fetishes, however I've observed that in bondage videos the types of fantasies we produce generally seem to fall into one of the following categories:

1) Pure Fantasy - This type of video exists specifically for the sake of the fetishistic goal.  No logic is needed, and people don't need to act in rational ways or like they would in real life. In some respects this is similar to pure, juvenile playing. Unless some aspect of the video is of personal interest to the producer, most videos of this category are typically custom videos, created for the individual tastes of the buyer.



2) Fill-In-The-Blank Fantasy - These scenes contains all the elements necessary for the fetishistic goal, but is otherwise devoid of any narrative or character (i.e., vignettes).  Any details of how the woman got into this situation, or what may happen to her next, is provided by the viewer.



3) Story Fantasy - The fetishistic goal is created within the context of the story, and it is a necessary part of said narrative, although allowances may be made in logic or realism to sustain the story. This is the typical "Damsel In Distress" story. It's probably debatable if superheroine stories fall into this category or #1.



4) Realistic Fantasy - These scenes are grounded in reality with no fanciful embellishments. This would be things like live BDSM performances, home movies, bondage interviews and perhaps security cameras.


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